Hello all,
Sharing my thoughts as I hit an internal reset on my life, YET AGAIN.
Good news,
I moved to a new city!
Austin, Texas, to be exact, and to say the least, the city is beautiful, and so far, I am proud to have moved to one of the most popular cities in the U.S.
Girl news,
The whole process has drained my mental energy significantly.
So, while I have been here for a month officially, I have not picked up a book, written, or worked on my personal development/business.
But there is this thing that I have been trying to practice more of, and that thing is GRACE.
I must remind myself not to be harsh and realize I can't be this perfect superhuman.
Hit Reset: Embracing the Reality of Starting Over
The thing about life is that there's no limit to how many times you can fail and try again.
The only absolute failure? Never starting again.
Life isn't perfect. As humans, we're all searching for meaning in this experience, and the beautiful part is—no two journeys are the same.
Similar, but never identical.
So, reset as many times as it takes.
I once heard a statistic that it takes an average of 9–10 attempts for a business idea to turn into success.
That means the prerequisite for success is failing at least 9 times.
But the key? Actually trying.
The problem I (and maybe you) face is having too many interests—or at least thinking I do. Here's how my process usually goes:
- I see someone making tons of money online with minimal effort.
- I set an unrealistic goal, like making $10K from this so-called idea in six months.
- I dive deep into the internet, trying to figure it all out.
- I get overwhelmed or psych myself out after reading too many negative experiences on Reddit.
- I try for 1–2 months.
- I quit.
- I chase another idea.
Classic shiny object syndrome. And I'm 100% affected.
I already crafted, planned, projected, and envisioned (flip, reflipped, revisited, EVERYTHING) how I want my life to look.
My ideal future, but it's so easy to stay here; The planning phase.
At this point, I've watched so many motivational, disciplined, and "just get started" videos on YouTube that they've become useless. More information isn't what I need.
I don't need all the answers right now.
I need action.
So, this is me taking action.
Till next time,
xo,
